Thursday, May 31, 2018

Why You Should Never Trust A Married Man

I think many single women live by the rule that if a man is married (or taken), he is off limits. I do know that there are also women who don't live by this rule, and don't care if a man is married or has a long time girlfriend, they will go after whoever they want, regardless of who they may hurt. A single woman is most likely going to get hit on by married men as well as single men. It happens. These married men will lie right to your face in order to get into your pants or your heart. Cheating married men lie.

I went through a rough divorce. He left me for another woman-- someone whom I thought was a friend of mine and obviously wasn't. I later found out that this wasn't the first time he had cheated on me or attempted to cheat. He's a smooth talker and if a woman knew he was married, he would tell them that I was a horrible wife who didn't do anything, or he would tell them that we were already separated, just not officially divorced, even though we were definitely not separated. He even hit on a couple of my friends and told them not to worry about it because "she knows all about it". Hell, a week before he moved out to move in with his mistress he was trying to get some ass from me, and I told him to eff off! But, I'm sure he didn't tell HER that, did he? Up to this day, he still attempts to portray me as the bad guy so that he doesn't look like the asshole.

My point is, no man is going to say, "Yes, I'm a piece of shit cheater who has no respect for my wife or my family". That certainly wouldn't get them laid.

Over my single years, I've been hit up by a myriad of married or taken men. Some of them lie and won't tell you that they are married, while others will be straight up with you and tell you that they are. I've heard every excuse in the book.

  • She's a huge bitch and I'm just staying until the kids are grown.
  • We live like roommates, we don't even sleep in the same bed anymore.
  • We are getting divorced, I just haven't moved out yet.
  • I don't love her anymore.
  • We are just living together to save on money, but we both see other people.
  • She lets me do whatever I want, she doesn't care.
  • She treats me horribly and cheats on me all the time.
Don't fall for any of it! DON'T! 

First of all, why would you want to get involved with a cheater? Despite him probably making you feel special and loved, he probably says or said the same things to his wife, and cheated anyway. They tend to prey on women with low self-esteem because they feel that they have a better chance.

Cheaters won't and don't change. Don't be that person who causes another wife (or husband) pain, or be viewed as a homewrecker. 

If he truly loves you, he will get out of that relationship before pursuing a new relationship. If you are really in love,  you will wait until that time comes.

He's most likely just looking for a f*ck and that's all you are going to be to him. End of story.

Married men (or women) are most likely looking to cheat because they are bored. Their marriage has become stagnant and they are looking for that initial "high" you get when you first date someone new. Instead of trying to fix things with their spouse, they are looking to get that new relationship high with another person. Sometimes they may feel guilty, sometimes they may not. There is never any good reason to cheat, and if he cheated because he got bored with the woman he swore his love to, he will do the same to you in the future.

Nothing good is going to come out of it. He's most likely not going to leave her for you, and even if he does, you will spend the rest of your life wondering if he's cheating on you because you know for a fact that he is a liar and a cheater.  It's going to cause too much heartache down the road. There is no fairytale endings for married cheaters.

These married men will tell you their sad tale. They will tell you how horrible it is and how unhappy they are. He will do everything to tug on your heartstrings to get you to give in to him. He will say anything to get you to say yes. Don't ever believe a married man who is trying to cheat!

Married Men = Red Flags For Single Women

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