Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Abusive Relationships: You Are Not Alone

If you are in an abusive relationship, I want you to know that you are not alone.

Abuse doesn't have to be strictly physical abuse. It can be a plethora of abusive behaviors.

Abuse is when someone continually tries to manipulate you and control you. Abuse is when someone blatantly lies to you over and over again. Abuse is when the person projects what they are doing onto you, accusing you of doing the things they are doing while maintaining their innocence. Abuse is blaming you for all of their problems; everything is your fault. Abuse is putting their hands on you, wrapping their hands around your neck, pushing you, kicking you, hitting you. Abuse is keeping you away from your family and friends, and viewing you as a possession, not a person.

An abusive person wants to use you, and strip you of your self-worth and dignity until you feel that you are not strong enough to leave or move on. They want you to believe that everything is your fault and none of it is theirs. They don't love you and they never have; they see you as a pawn that they can manipulate and control to do what they want.

All of these things are abuse, and narcissists thrive on abuse. They manipulate and take advantage of their "supply" aka YOU. They don't know how to truly love anyone because they only love themselves.

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It's not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong. It's them who have this mental disorder. They will never take responsibility for what they are doing wrong unless they are apologizing to get something else out of it.

I know that you feel like you are a prisoner in your own home, you are trapped, and there is no way out. You feel hopeless and you cry on a daily basis dreaming of a better life away from your abuser.

I know. I've been there. I've even written a book about my experience called, "The Devil's Masquerade". I've researched this topic endlessly and I've spoken to numerous victims of narcissists and narcopaths (narcissistic sociopaths).

I know you feel alone, and you don't understand what is happening or why this is happening to you. I'm offering my hand. Grab my hand and let's talk about it.

You have to know that this is not what your life is meant to be. There is something better out there for you, but it's going to take work to get there. It's going to hurt, a lot, but the end results will be amazing. You can have your life back again, and you need to get out before it's too late.

I am no expert by any means and I am not offering up any expert advice, however, I feel that my knowledge and experience can be beneficial to anyone going through this. I didn't have anyone to talk to when I was going through all of this and it was the loneliest time of my life. I don't want you to feel alone anymore.

I understand how a narcissist thinks and many of the manipulation tactics. I also know some of the best ways to deal with a narcissist, especially when there are children involved. I can help you understand what is happening to you and why they are the way that they are.

I am offering a 30 minute one on one interruption-free chat session (via Skype) for $10. You can use the button below to secure a chat session and then I will contact you to set up a time that works best for you.

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I've been through it all and I came out shining brightly on the other side. You don't realize how strong you really are until you have no other choice but to BE STRONG.  That time is now!


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